Dear Kailyan:
I understand the suffering you may be experiencing right now:
hopelessness, quarantine fatigue, confusion, anxiety, isolation or an
inexplicable sense of doom and despair. But in experiencing these,
remember that you are not alone. Everyone does. And it is
okay.
The brighter side to being human is that we are capable of being and
doing much, much more. So amid the daily struggles and the pandemic, do
not lose hope. Never lose hope. More so: Never, ever take your own
life.
To our youth and children:
When you feel like the world’s uncool, everything’s uncool, your day’s
uncool, remember that the world doesn’t end with a heartache or a
frustrating friend or a lousy grade. Believe that a day of profound love,
laughter and a diploma will soon come, since it always surely
does.
Remember your dreams and why they are worth waking up for, living for,
every minute of the day. Yes. Bad times there will be, but so will good
times; and the more you grow, you will soon see how each experience
actually nourishes you, strengthens you to be the best of who you
are.
Keep the faith. You have so much ahead you. You are filled with so much
promise and are capable of so much goodness.
You are loved. You matter. Your opinion matters. Your feelings matter.
Share them. Your parents, your friends, your teacher, Pastor, Priest or
counsellor, they’ll be there. Always, there will be an ear willing to
listen, a hand willing to help, a friend who will laugh even at your
corniest jokes. So hang in there, okay? Everything will be okay.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to
prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Jeremiah 29:11
To the parents: Times are tough; and in our daily struggles, we may be
missing out on why we are working hard in the first place: our children.
So, always find time for your children. Reach out. Talk to them. Know the
warning signs. And more importantly, once spotted, swiftly act on
them.
To all community members: Check in on someone - especially, our young
ones - you may be concerned about. Listen to what they have to say, how
they say it and show them kindness and support. Drown the noise of stigma
and spread the message of love instead. Suicides find feeble footing in an
atmosphere of love.
Let us not allow our present circumstance to dim the prospects of a
better tomorrow – a brighter tomorrow, for one day, it will
come.
I call on all members of the La Trinidad community to be one supportive
community. A burden shared is made lighter by each hand willing to carry
that weight. Let us thus join hands – at least, figuratively, for the
moment – in carrying that weight in our shared pursuit to heal as
one.
For our LA TRINIDAD SUICIDE PREVENTION Hotline, please do not hesitate to
text or call the following:
Ms. May Claire Jimenez: 0917 859 2657
Ms. Cristina Anioay: 0910 343 6595
MAYOR ROMEO. K. SALDA